Some of you may or may not know about the man who pays Me to spit in his food and set him tasks, and show him (via webcam) how to apply make up. he (I didn't do a capital H at the beginning of that sentence because there are important grammar rules in D/s relationships) has other women that he sees, and pays, for more extreme stuff (the dildos, human ash tray etc).
Here is a photo of him, with his head cropped off to protect his identity.
I asked him to write a little bit about his foodplay fetish for the blog. I would recommend that you don't read the following if you are eating, unless this is your kink too. The first time we met, by the way, was his 50th birthday.
My interest in food play - by 'tanya' the sissy slave.
Mistress Corvidae has instructed me to write about my interest in food play. This is an interest that has come lately (over the last few years) to me and has developed gradually over time as I read about it in various magazines and I can safely say that like all other activities, each person’s interest is unique.
My particular fetish is to have a very attractive and young Mistress humiliate me (preferably in
public) by ordering my food for me, and her allowing me only to eat or drink food and liquids that have been sampled and approved by her mouth before allowing me to eat or drink anything.
Couple this with being forced to ask permission to go to the toilet and for me this is heaven. Ideally in private I would be dressed as her sissy maid, serving, obeying and worshipping her and her girlfriends and she/they would spit the food and drink into my mouth or would make me eat from a dog bowl whilst they verbally abused me.
As I have an oral fetish, I have also been used by a Mistress as her ashtray for cigarette ash only, although I have heard of some subs having cigarettes stubbed out on their tongues. Even for me, this seems a step too far and would be a hard limit for me.
I have also had the honour of having all sorts of other objects inserted into my mouth, including
stiletto heels, toes, feet, fingers, dildoes the toes of shoes and boots, although whether any of these could be considered as food I will leave to the reader.
By way of background, I am a submissive, serving Mistress Corvidae for the last 3 years as her sissy maid. Although there has been no sexual activity between us, She is aware of all my fetishes, kinks and activities, including food play. This includes our visits to restaurants with Her and Her friends (usually after shopping trips to central London) when I have the privilege of paying for Her clothes and other items before enjoying a well earned lunch, usually in a dim sum restaurant.
On these occasions Mistress will send me detailed instructions beforehand on what to wear (including collar, lingerie, perfume, lipstick, mascara), together with when and where to meet. I vividly remember the very first time we did this. It was a hot summer’s day and we went to a large chemists off Ox ford Street. As it was so hot I needed some water and bought a bottle. Mistress commanded me to give Her the bottle and She took a drink from it and spat it back into the bottle for me to drink.
After completing our shopping, during which time Mistress Corvidae commanded me to buy some lingerie, we arrived at the restaurant. Mistress Corvidae ordered some delicious dim sum for the three of us and whilst we were waiting for the food to arrive She ordered me to take my lingerie into the toilet and to put in on, which I duly did.
The first course arrived shortly after and Mistress looked me in the eye and bit into some of the food and chewed it. She then took it out of her mouth and placed it onto my plate, commanding me to eat it. I was very nervous as this was the first time I had participated in food play in public, but fortunately the restaurant was not very busy and no staff or customers could see what was going on.
The drinks arrived and Mistress Corvidae took a drink and let the contents fall into my glass. For me being able to eat and drink anything that had been in Mistress’s mouth was nectar, although not in a sexual way. In my opinion, this activity is the supreme act of public submissiveness and in the right context can form part of foreplay if both parties are willing participants.
I have seen films where food is “abused” i.e. smeared over sexual organs or other parts of the body and sometimes licked off, but I like to think my activities are a little bit more refined than that and, of course, possible in public. We have done this a number of times and one time there happened to be an older man sitting at the table next to us watching what was going on. I dread to think what was going through his mind whilst he was watching us!
I hope this has given readers some insight into my fetish and I look forward to being able to serve Mistress Corvidae in this way soon.